I wanted to share this poem that someone gave me when my uncle died. Thought it might help. When I am gone, release me, let me go, I have so many things to see and do. You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears, be happy that we had these years. I gave to you my love, you can only guess how much you gave to me, I thankyou all for the love you have shown but now it is time I travelled on alone. So grieve a while for me if grieve you must, it is only for a while that we must part so bless the memories within your heart. I won't be far away for life goes on so if you need me call and I will come, though you can't see me or touch me I will near and if you listen with your heart you'll hear all my love around you soft and clear. And when you must come this way alone I will greet you with a smile and say "Welcome Home."